John Wilkinson    Family Tree 
Vivian Knox 1923-2008  Mother My    mother,    Vivian    Knox    was    born    at    Alnwick    on    29    January    1923    to    Joseph    and Catherine   Knox   (nee   Wade).   She   was   the   only   daughter   of   four   children.   Her   brothers were   Joseph   (Born   1925),   Kenneth   (Born   1927)   and   Ronald   (Born   1933),   all   children   being born   in   Alnwick,   Northumberland.   She   also   had   a   stepsister   Lillian   from   her   fathers   first marriage.   On   leaving   school   at   fourteen,   she   went   into   service   at   one   of   the   local   large houses   until   the   outbreak   of   the   second   world   war   when   she   went   to   London   to   work   in   a munitions   factory.   This   is   where   she   started   smoking   and,   despite   several   attempts   to stop,   she   smoked   for   the   rest   of   her   life.   I   took   her   to   Lichfield   to   have   acupuncture   once and   she   came   out   with   a   needle   in   her   ear.   If   she   got   desperate   she   had   to   rub   the   needle   to take   the   craving   away.   On   the   way   home   she   was   still   rubbing   the   needle   at   the   same   time as   she   was   smoking   a   cigarette.   After   the   war   she   returned   to   Shilbottle,   married,   and moved   to   Bilton   Banks.   Four   years   later   they   moved   to   Percy   Road   Shilbottle,   where   she lived   for   most   of   her   life.   Times   were   very   hard   following   my   fathers   death   and   she   had   to work    to    survive.    She    worked    at    the    local    junior    school    in    the    canteen    and cleaning,    worked    in    a    shop    and    eventually    joined    the    home    help    service. Initially,   the   only   means   of   bathing   was   a   tin   bath   in   front   of   the   fireplace   and on   a   saturday   afternoon   I   had   to   hide   behind   the   settee   to   watch   Doctor   Who. Many   neighbours   used   to   give   her   bags   of   coal   to   heat   the   house.   She   lost   her free   coal   on   the   death   of   my   father.   I   can’t   remember   her   having   any   serious health   problems   until   late   in   life,   but   I   do   remember   her   having   a   succession   of boils   all   over   her   body,   even   one   in   her   ear.   This   seemed   to   carry   on   for   a   few years   so   she   must   have   been   really   run   down   at   the   time.   There   weren’t   any   men in   her   life   after   dad   died.   The   only   one   I   recall   coming   to   the   house   was   Andy Lockie   from   Alnwick.   He   worked   at   Hardys   fishing   tackle   works   in   Alnwick,   but she   always   insisted   that   he   was   a   friend   who   took   her   out   for   the   occasional drink.    I    always    thought    that    they    should    have    got    married    but    she    later confessed   that   she   used   him   a   bit   to   get   out   of   the   house.   She   used   to   go   out   with brother   Ronnie   and   his   son   Derek   and   wife   Anne   quite   often.   They   had   a   few tales   to   tell   about   how   much   food   she   could   eat,   one   example   was   that everyone   in   the   restaurant   got   up   and   clapped   when   she   finished   a   very large   meal.   I   don’t   know   how   true   it   was   but   she   always   took   it   in   good spirits.   For   the   last   few   years   of   her   life   she   moved   in   with   Colin   and Irene   at   Tyersal.   She   was   diagnosed   with   ovarian   cancer   and   had   to   go into   hospital   several   times   to   get   treatment   for   high   levels   of   calcium   in her   blood.   It   must   be   said   that   both   Colin   and   Irene   could   not   have done any more to make her stay as comfortable as possible.
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Kenny, Mother, Joe and Ronnie Mothers Wedding 1945 Me, Mother and Irene at Catherines wedding
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